You don't get somebody to like you by doing them a favor. That only tends to build resentment over the fact that they are needy and you are not. No, you ask them to do you a favor.
He that would live in peace and at ease must not speak all he knows or all he sees.
To Follow by faith alone is to follow blindly. Benjamin Frankli
Those have a short Lent who owe money to be paid at Easter. Benjamin Fran
If all but myself were blind, I should want neither a fine house nor fine furniture.